Insist at all your social affairs, those you host and those you attend:
NO PUBLIC HOMO'S!
It's just a matter of common decency!
Zero tolerance for public perversion!
Decency is a matter of civil rights, the right of every citizen to not be molested by public lewdness. Civic decency demands that civic virtue must oppose public vice, especially in it's most perverse forms.
Do not flagrantly flaunt your sexual perversion (your "lifestyle") nor expect social approval of it. Keep it too yourself if you must keep it at all!
To keep quiet in the face of shameless affronts to basic decency is to approve them. That "tolerance" is a lack of civic virtue and a lack of charity toward the deviant. To reprimand the sinner is an spiritual work of mercy, that he might recognize his sin and at least control himself and ultimately reform his life (and life style) and live a truly wholesome life.
Those who promote homosexuality, therefore, hate "homosexuals" because they further confuse them and do not give them any direction or hope--they condemn those with this perverse same-sex inclination. We must, rather, instruct the ignorant, counsel the doubtful and reprimand the sinner in heartfelt solidarity with each person so that he may live a noble life and overcome his shameful inclinations, which every man has.
Remember what The Penny Catechism says:
344. Why are we bound to deny ourselves?
We are bound to deny ourselves because our natural inclinations are prone to evil from our very childhood; and, if not corrected by self-denial, they will certainly carry us to hell.